Meet Carlton Washington | Entrepreneur scaling wellness, longevity, aesthetics, and franchise growth.

We had the good fortune of connecting with Carlton Washington and we’ve shared our conversation below.

Hi carlton, have there been any changes in how you think about work-life balance?
I actually don’t believe in work-life balance, at least not the way people like to talk about it. I’ve never met many people who built something significant while everything in their life stayed perfectly balanced. When you are really building, there are seasons where it looks like complete chaos from the outside. There were years building 4Ever Young where we were working constantly, fighting to stay alive, raising kids, trying to be husbands, fathers, employers and leaders at the same time. There were periods where the business absolutely affected my home life and my health. That part is real. I’m not going to rewrite history now and pretend I built a national company while shutting my laptop at five every day. I didn’t. There were times when the business needed almost everything I had, and quite frankly, I don’t know that 4Ever Young would exist today if we had approached those years looking for balance.

What has changed as I’ve gotten older is that I understand the difference between **sacrifice and self-destruction**. I still don’t chase balance. I chase alignment. My family matters. My health matters. My faith matters. The businesses I’m building matter. But they are not all going to receive an equal 25 percent of me every day, and I think pretending they will creates unnecessary guilt. Some days my business is going to get me. Some days my son’s basketball is going to get me. Some days my wife and family need me, and some days I need to shut everything down and take care of myself. Successful people learn how to recognize which season they are in and what requires their attention right now. So my life probably still doesn’t look very balanced to somebody watching it from the outside. I’m okay with that. I’m building a life, a family, my health and a legacy all at the same time. It gets messy. The goal for me today isn’t balance—it’s making sure that when all of this is over, I didn’t win in one area of my life by completely losing in the ones that mattered most.

Alright, so for those in our community who might not be familiar with your business, can you tell us more?
I’ve never had a clean, straight-line business story. I came from foster care, was adopted, went to Howard University, worked corporate jobs, sold cars, worked in banking, lost money, went through bankruptcy, rebuilt, went back and got my Executive MBA, and eventually got to a point where I knew I could not spend the rest of my life working inside somebody else’s box. I had already learned enough about sales, people, money and business to know I wanted to build something of my own. In 2014, Deniz Duygulu and I started 4Ever Young Anti-Aging Solutions in South Florida. There was no giant investor behind us and no blueprint telling us how to build what we were trying to build. We were early in hormone optimization, anti-aging, aesthetics, IV therapy and preventative wellness, and we had to convince people that taking care of yourself before something went wrong actually made sense. We did everything. Marketing, sales, front desk, events, patient relationships, putting out fires — whatever needed to happen, we did it.

And no, it was not easy. There were periods where we were literally fighting to survive. Around 2017, we were working 24/7 and still almost lost the company because we had used the wrong type of capital. I’ve learned the hard way that you can have a great business and still kill it with bad financing, bad decisions or simply running out of time. I’ve been broke before. I’ve had businesses fail. I’ve had moments where the pressure from business followed me home and affected my health and my family. But I also learned that there is usually another move if you are willing to stay in the fight long enough to see it. We kept adjusting, kept learning and kept showing up. Eventually one location became multiple locations, multiple locations became a franchise system, and 4Ever Young grew into a national wellness and aesthetics brand.

What I am probably most proud of is that I’ve experienced this company from almost every possible angle. I’ve been the founder when nobody knew who we were. I’ve been the guy trying to make payroll. I’ve been the salesman, marketer and face of the brand. I helped scale it nationally, went through the private-equity process and sold a majority interest in the company. And then, instead of just taking the money and becoming somebody who talks about what he used to do, I put my own capital back into the system and opened 4Ever Young Atlanta Midtown. So today I’m still a co-founder and owner of the broader company, but I’m also back in the trenches as an actual franchisee and flagship operator in Atlanta. That keeps me very grounded because I can sit in a boardroom and understand enterprise value, but I can also walk into my center and understand what an empty appointment slot, a bad hire, a great patient experience or a missed revenue target actually feels like.

Atlanta has been another reminder that nobody owes you anything because of what you accomplished before. A national brand does not automatically make you important in a new city. You still have to earn the community. We have done that patient by patient, relationship by relationship and review by review. In a little over a year, we have built more than 1,300 five-star Google reviews and one of the strongest local reputations in the system. I’m proud of that because it wasn’t manufactured. Those are real people who trusted us with their health, wellness and appearance and then cared enough about their experience to tell somebody else.

The biggest lesson I’ve learned is that success keeps changing. The grind doesn’t magically end because you make money or complete a transaction. It just changes form. And I don’t think fulfillment comes from an exit check either. It comes from alignment — knowing why you are building, who you are building for and whether the thing you are creating still matters to you. Today, what I want people to know about me and about 4Ever Young is that this has never just been a med spa story. It is a story about longevity, wellness, entrepreneurship, failure, rebuilding, taking risks and continuing to evolve. I’ve won, I’ve lost, I’ve started over, and I’ve learned enough to know that none of those stages are permanent. You just keep building.

If you had a friend visiting you, what are some of the local spots you’d want to take them around to?
If somebody I really like is coming to Atlanta for a week, I’m probably not giving them the traditional tourist version of the city. I’m going to show them Atlanta the way I actually live it. We’re definitely starting with Piedmont Park — walking, getting some exercise, taking in the skyline and just enjoying the city. From there, I love the BeltLine. We’ll probably grab scooters and ride a good stretch of it, stop at different restaurants and bars, people-watch, grab some food and drinks, and just let the day unfold. That’s one of the things I like about Atlanta — you can be in the middle of the city, active, eating, drinking and around good energy all at the same time.

Then I’m probably taking them completely outside of that environment for a day. I live around a lot of woods and land, and I enjoy being out there. So we may do some shooting, guns and ammo, spend some time outside, and later that night sit around a campfire with some drinks and just talk. That’s actually one of my favorite things to do. I like the city, but I also like being able to get away from it. Give me some land, a fire, good conversation and no agenda for a few hours and I’m good.

Food-wise, we’re definitely eating Jamaican food at some point and hitting a good steakhouse. I’m also a huge movie person, so there’s a very good chance we end up at the movies one night. If there’s a concert, music festival or a big fight happening while they’re here, we’re probably going to that too. I still like being active and being around energy. And at this stage of my life, there is a pretty good chance basketball is somewhere in the week too because I spend a lot of time around my son’s games and everything that comes with that.

The funny part is anybody visiting me is probably going to end up working with me a little bit too. That’s just my life. I’ve always been good at mixing business, community and fun together. They might end up at a 4Ever Young event, a grassroots community activation, meeting people with me, or tagging along somewhere that started as business and somehow turned into a good time. I’ve never been great at separating everything into neat little boxes. I like making the work fun and making the fun productive. So if you spend a week with me in Atlanta, you’re probably going to exercise, eat well, drink a little, shoot something, watch something, meet a bunch of people, go to an event, see some basketball and somehow accidentally do some business along the way. That’s probably the most authentic Atlanta experience I could give somebody.

Shoutout is all about shouting out others who you feel deserve additional recognition and exposure. Who would you like to shoutout?
My shoutout is actually to the strangers. I say this to business owners all the time: the people who know you personally will always see some version of the person you were before the title, before the company, before the success. Your family, your wife, your children, your parents, your friends and your partners are incredibly important, and none of this is meant to diminish what they have done for me. But professionally, the truth is that strangers are often the people who make your dreams real. They are the first people willing to walk through your door, buy your product, trust your expertise, recommend you to someone else and give a new business a chance when they have absolutely no obligation to do so.

Every patient who walked into 4Ever Young not knowing me personally, every person who referred a friend, every customer who trusted our team with their health or appearance, every franchisee who believed in something we created, and every person in a new community like Atlanta who decided to give us an opportunity — those people changed my life. Strangers eventually become customers, patients, supporters, advocates and sometimes friends. They are the ones who allow an entrepreneur to become who he says he wants to become. So my shoutout is to every stranger who ever took a chance on me, my businesses or something I was building. You may not realize it, but you are a huge part of my story. And to every entrepreneur reading this: never underestimate the stranger. The stranger may be the person who changes your life.

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