We asked some folks we admire to share one piece of conventional advice they disagree with.

Ibbie Aromolaran | Licensed Therapist & Dating/Relationship Coach

One piece of conventional advice I disagree with is the idea that “true love will find you” or that there’s a single ‘one’ for everyone. While I believe in the power of love and connection, this notion can be limiting. It suggests that we should wait passively for love to happen rather than actively seeking relationships and investing in them. In reality, I think that pretty much anyone can be ‘the one’ if there’s mutual investment and compatibility. Building a strong relationship is about how both partners communicate, support each other, and grow together. Love is often about effort and shared values, rather than simply fate or destiny. Read more>>

Johanna Clark | Salon Owner & Hairstylist

Business is only about numbers. I believe business is numbers, sure to a point. But in my heart I believe business is about relationships, leading with integrity and providing the best customer service to clients and a place where your staff feels they can approach you with anything. Read more>>

Dr. Dequies | Women’s Leadership Consultant

While I understand the motto “work smarter, not harder,” I have come to learn that in owning a business, that truly doesn’t apply. Yes, you need to work smart by discovering creative and technologically intuitive ways to be successful. However, the thought that you won’t have to work hard to own and operate a business is an erroneous assumption. If you’re starting a business, maintaining a business, and trying to grow a business, you have to work exceptionally hard. Now, if you are working in your purpose, it may not feel like you’re working so hard because you love to do it naturally. Read more>>