Parenting in 2021 and having a positive impact on your children

We asked some of the best parents we know to tell us about the most important thing they’ve done as parents and have shared their wisdom below.
I Never Gave Up On Anything I Did . I Stayed Consistent An had Hope For Everything. Read more>>
Parenting is love. No matter what I do for my daughter — be it good, but especially what she would consider bad — I remind her many times that she’s loved. At bed, my wife and I even ask her to say to herself that she is loved. Not feeling loved, cared for, or noticed can be a big problem for anyone; I think that’s a starting point to everything in parenting. Hopefully, our daughter will grow up thinking, “This situation may be bad, but I’m loved no matter what.” Read more>>
I have a 11 yr old, 4 yr old, and 8 month old. So a little over two years ago I chose to actively heal my Past traumas and childhood wounds. My reactions to my eldest daughter and the 4 yr old (at the time 2 yr old) was steeped in control, fear, shame, and guilt. I was so afraid of my own emotions that I stifled theirs. I hovered and controlled because I didn’t have any guidance when I was young, not healthy boundaries, nor control. So it showed up in my parenting and eventually showed up I. The behaviours. I believe kids can only do what they’re shown and it’s necessary for me to show them vulnerability, growth, and a willingness to let life be easy. I hope this answers the questions Jay Read more>>
I believe the most important thing I have done is to model for my children how to live and embody the words I speak. EQ (Emotional Quotient) is more important than IQ (Intelligence Quotient). Living your authentic truth will ensure that you will maintain your mental health, which is intimately connected to selfcare. Read more>>
The most important thing I have done as a parent is remembering who I am. Sometimes society puts limitations on parents, from the way we express ourselves, the type of lifestyle we’re expected to live, and what career field we should be in. I teach my kids that not only am I a mother, but also a wife, daughter, sister, friend, business owner etc. By remembering who I am, it is my hope that they will never forget who they are. I believe it will help them understand that I am I human on a journey just like them, and generational curses will be broken. . Read more>>
One of the most important thing I have done as a parent was to instill the fact to my daughter that nothing is promised and the fact that you have to work hard for what you want to achieve in life. I know for sure that plays a huge impact on how I raised my daughter. Read more>>
Listening and communicating. Gentle parenting is so snubbed now a days for being interpreted as not strict enough. I absolutely think there is value in listening and communicating to your child. As a teen mom to a little baby girl, I was so nervous to take on such a huge responsibility but one thing I was sure of was that I wouldn’t resort to physical punishment. Me and her talk about everything and I try to always get her thoughts on anything that impacts her so she understands she is valued. Read more>>
I’ve encouraged my two daughters all along the way. Not6hing beats a failure but a try! They know that I love them unconditionally and Mama got their back! Both are inspiring entrepreneurs in their own right. However, I also emphasize education. The oldest is a raising junior, majoring in Business, and the youngest is a rising sophomore majoring in pre-med. I live a life of transparency. And strive to live in a way that models, integrity Read more>>