We had the good fortune of connecting with Tiana Carston and we’ve shared our conversation below.
Hi Tiana, have there been any changes in how you think about work-life balance?
Coming from a family that had their own business it was a dream of mine to have my own. I have always had a “boss mentality” but I made a choice to start my family first over my career so working for someone else consumed my life. I worked two jobs as I tried so hard over and over again to launch my own business but fear got the best of me every time. I was afraid to loose my guaranteed income so I lacked consistency in any business I tried to launch. I recently became overwhelmed and I knew I had more to offer in me, a side no one had seen before. I wanted to be able to express myself not only because of my “boss mentality” but because I wanted to be a better Mother without fear of loosing my income. Being on the fast track I knew I needed to slow down it was becoming all to familiar of my past I prayed my way out of . I wanted to creative a more balanced and stable life for my family and what better way after much prayer then to pour some happiness and motivation into myself and take a step out on faith. I decided to put my 2 week notice in and focus on my online boutique so I could express myself , work from home and be a better Mother. I knew I made the right choice because after I started my journey , the way was paved and I was blessed with so many great mentors . Now my life is more balanced and everyday is a process but I definitely see great progress.
Alright, so let’s move onto what keeps you busy professionally?
I definitely have an unexplainable drive. Anyone who knows me always says “Tiana , I don’t know how you do it!” My journey has not been easy. I am a wife and we have five kids ages six and under and I also take care of my Mom. I look at them everyday and giving up is not an option. They look up to me! I didn’t finish college and I had already allowed fear to stop every other business venture of mine. I knew I needed to pray over the next steps I was going to take and I prayed and prayed and I always ask God to protect me from my own understanding and only bless me with what I am asking of if it is truly for me. I knew exactly what I needed to do, make my mind up , establish a plan and be very consistent and establish a organized business that truly was apart of me. My brand and every piece I choose to sale says alot about me. I once could not make choices on what fashion pieces I wanted to wear. I either wasn’t allowed to wear it or did not have the money to buy it. Once I did I had already become a mother and was putting myself to the back burner. I can now express the girly side of me and I want to help other woman be able to do so as well , so I created and affordable online boutique with many different styles so woman can express every side of them whether they are relaxing at home, going to the beach, a night with the girls or a night with her man. I want woman to be able to love themselves and feel good everyday for any occasion.
If you had a friend visiting you, what are some of the local spots you’d want to take them around to?
I love to try new things and visit new places. I wouldn’t make plans at all. I am definitely a spare of the moment kind of girl when it comes to going out but if I had to choose I would go to a comedy show because I love to laugh. My favorite restaurant is Olive Garden but I also love seafood and and dishes you can’t find just anywhere to the sugar factory would definitely be a place for me followed by the selfie museum so we could take a lot of pictures lol. I love being behind and I front of the camera. I love capturing memories and sometimes I can’t enjoy myself because I capture everything. Other than that I am very chill honestly, you might catch me at a club every now and then . Shoutout is all about shouting out others who you feel deserve additional recognition and exposure. Who would you like to shoutout?
I would definitely like to give credit to a life long friend of mine Kia Mullins owner of House of K Boutique. She showed me it can be done no matter where or when we start as long as you put in the work it will all workout. I also would like to thank Lashieka Ferrell owner of Eye Charms Boutique for being my mentor. She helped me get all the license I would need for my business to be legal and gave me tips on the financial end of this business. Words can’t explain how appreciative I am of them both. Especially because we are in the same business but their has been no hate just a lot of love and support.
Website: Diaryimpressionsboutique.com
Instagram: diaryiboutique
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/5273503882719746
Other: You can also find me on TikTok under tianacarston96