They say life isn’t about the things that happen to you, but about the decisions you make. There’s a ton of coverage about the best decisions people have made, but not nearly enough conversation about the tough decisions. We asked folks we admire to tell us about the most difficult decision they’ve ever had to make and have shared some of those responses below.

Dunni Olaiya | Licensed Master Cosmetologist & Entrepreneur

One of the most difficult decisions I’ve ever had to make was betting on myself and choosing the path of entrepreneurship. It’s not the “norm” where I come from—many people opt for traditional career routes that offer more stability and certainty. But I’ve always felt this pull to create something of my own, to build a business that reflects my passion for the beauty industry. Taking that leap was daunting. I knew the risks were high, and the road wasn’t going to be easy, but I also knew I had to trust my vision. Read more>>

Sheneka Adams | Dating Coach/Business Owner

The most difficult decision I’ve ever had to make was choosing to walk away from people and situations that I knew weren’t good for me, even when it hurt. Letting go of what’s familiar, even if it’s toxic, takes strength, but sometimes you have to choose yourself over everything else. Read more>>

Latasha Warren | Actress, Artist, Author, Comedian, Entrepreneur, Filmmaker, TV Show Host

Being raised in Kankakee Illinois I moved to Memphis TN at the age of 20. I raised my family in Memphis TN. The most difficult decision was walking away from the life I built for over 20 years in Memphis. I was living life as a wife, mother, career woman, active Minister behind the walls of the church, a successful career in Healthcare leadership, cars and money. I had a life many would love to have but there was one thing missing. My happiness was not there. I was not being the complete woman I was. I was dead on the inside, not truly being who I was. Read more>>