We had the good fortune of connecting with Shanise Morris and we’ve shared our conversation below.
Hi Shanise, what do you attribute your success to?
Well first and foremost I had to define what success meant for me – personally – so I could have a realistic plan for ultimately achieving it. Authenticity has always been a fundamental piece of that plan. Even before my first post went live on Instagram, or I published my first blog post on my website, I knew success would ultimately come down to my ability to remain true to myself and my “why”… The creative space in general is highly saturated, as are the content creator and blogger markets, and it can be hard to differentiate amongst those in any particular niche. For someone like myself, I can almost always count on creative mom bloggers offering up similar DIYs, hacks, tips and tricks around the holidays, and content around motherhood, parenting, and traveling in general. If you invest too much time in what others are doing (and how they are doing it) and allow yourself to get distracted by the “noise” it can definitely be discouraging. Personally speaking I have had to consistently remind myself that there will always be someone else doing the same thing, but “I” (heavy emphasis on “I”) am what makes my brand and my story different – and ultimately what has, and will continue to, contribute to my success. Period. Although there is still so much more I look forward to doing, and so many more connections to be made, having that mindset allows me to thrive, and helps me to appreciate the community I am a part of rather than feeling pressured to keep up or compete.
Let’s talk shop? Tell us more about your career, what can you share with our community?
I hope that anyone who comes across my content, follows my motherhood journey, or leverages my creative services appreciates my authenticity, finds me relatable and my insight invaluable, and is inspired or encouraged in some way. At the end of the day that is the goal that drives me, and motivates me through it “all”…
If you had a friend visiting you, what are some of the local spots you’d want to take them around to?
Over the last few years there have been so many places popping up in and around the Charlotte area! Sadly, I haven’t had a chance to enjoy as many as I would have liked due to the pandemic and becoming a mom of twins but… I have recently started venturing out again with friends and the hubby. That said, if my best friend were in town we would be exploring the area and all the newest offerings together! Ha! My itinerary for the week would be a mix of places I have been, and some that are on my list. We would enjoy at least one brunch at Church and Union and one at RH Rooftop, enjoy drinks and some adult putting at Puttery or Top Golf, explore new heights at iFly. Spend some late nights taking in the views at Merchant and Trade, Nuvole TwentyTwo and Aura, release some stress with some ax throwing at BATL Axe, cheer on the newest franchise in the MLS, the Charlotte FC soccer team. And depending on the season and how adventurous my BFF was feeling, we could take a trip up to the Whitewater Center for some hiking, ziplining, or rafting or enjoy a boat ride on Lake Norman. A trip to the Mint Museum and at least a few hours at the Spa at Ballantyne Hotel or the Ritz-Carlton in Uptown would also be in the mix!
Who else deserves some credit and recognition?
Truly, there have been so many people who have had an impact on my life, but I would be remiss if I didn’t shoutout my husband who has invested so much into helping me see in myself what he always has. I also want to shoutout the women who have been instrumental in my journey – whether directly or indirectly. My grandmothers, my mother and mother-in-law, my tribe, aunts, cousins, etc. etc. and the women in the mommy-hood blogger world that I have had the opportunity to “meet” from afar. Life is a journey full of so many seasons, and so many lessons, some of which we can navigate on our own but I find strength and beauty in our ability to seek and receive guidance from others and I’m so grateful for all of these individuals. Outside of my real-life influences and mentors, has been a wealth of knowledge I have gained through my faith, and through reading. One book in particular that helped me get out of my head, and out of my way, was “You Are a Badass” by Jen Sincero – definitely recommend for anyone anxious about doing “the thing”… whatever that “thing” is!
Website: www.shanisemorris.com
Instagram: momminainteasy_thebrand
Linkedin: Shanise Morris
Other: Link to purchase copy of my eBook – Eat.Sleep.Repeat – https://payhip.com/b/ZSO6w
Image Credits
Little Nest Portraits
Rebekah Richardson Photography