Meet Rónké Òké | Workplace Culture Strategist & Worth Ethic Advocate

We had the good fortune of connecting with Rónké Òké and we’ve shared our conversation below.

Hi Rónké, how has your perspective on work-life balance evolved over time?
The work-life balance model has never worked for me. I am one of those multi-hyphenate professionals: I have a full-time job, a part-time job, a passion project, a side hustle, and I freelance, consult, and own a business. And because I live my life in this way, I have never accomplished the balance (or integration) the experts told me I would achieve.

I often joke that out of all of the possible ways to describe my professional identity, I prefer to use the term “multi-hyphenate” because it captures the integration of various skill sets I’ve accumulated throughout my career and the fragility of my attempts to simultaneously keep them all together and separated. It feels like one wrong move, one new stressor, and everything implodes! I imagine many working professionals find themselves in this precarious situation, where the pressure to juggle it all often leads to burnout and other work-related health issues.

And both the “work-life balance” and “work-life integration” models contain hyphens, meaning that they are also fragile and precarious models. While the work-life balance model aims to create a clear divide between work and life, the pressure to meet personal and professional responsibilities often feels overwhelming, and the fear of not being able to satisfy both areas can reimpose stress and guilt. Neither model targets the core of the problem; they only tend to the symptoms. The core of the problem is this: we are overloaded and work takes up a significant portion of our collective lives.

This is why I am adamant that I am not a proponent of work-life balance or work-life integration. Instead, I proudly self describe as a Worth Ethic Advocate. My goal is not to achieve work-life balance/integration but to develop a healthy Worth Ethic.

Worth ethic is a reframing practice that encourages individuals to recognize and embrace their intrinsic value beyond productivity and output. Instead of defining ourselves by our work or achievements, worth ethic invites us to live authentically and ask for what we need in every area of our lives. It’s about prioritizing self-care, understanding our unique rhythms, and cultivating a sense of worthiness that isn’t tied to our deliverables.

Alright, so for those in our community who might not be familiar with your business, can you tell us more?
My career has always been passion-motivated, driven by a deep commitment to helping communities and improving lives. My work has been centered around cause-driven, and mission-based organizations, where the goal has always been to create tangible, meaningful, and sustainable impact. Whether it’s advocating for underserved communities or developing strategies to amplify impact, my focus has always been to serve others and support their personal and professional growth.

I am the CEO and Founder of RAO Consultants, a Workplace Culture and Stakeholder Management firm that partners with companies, nonprofits, and HigherEd institutions to enable leadership and cross-functional teams to deliver high-impact solutions that address social, workforce, and organizational challenges.

RAO Consultants prioritizes individual development just as much as organizational sustainability. What sets RAO Consultants apart from other boutique Organizational Management firms is our people- and community-centered approach which cultivates spaces that empower people to feel valued, respected, and cared for. This holistic focus allows us to actively support individuals in their professional and personal development, and move forward in alignment with their own values and needs. RAO Consultants offers individual and cohort Leadership and Career Coaching services supporting clients as they redefine their relationship with work, understand their unique rhythms, align their energy with their productivity flows, and break free from burnout. We fulfill this commitment through our signature Worth Ethic Framework™️ and suite of Worth-Centered Leadership™️ programs. These core initiatives are designed to help high-achieving professionals reclaim their time and energy by aligning productivity with personal well-being and define success on their own terms. In February 2025, we launched our first on-demand course, The Worth Ethic Bootcamp™️, a 5 module self-paced program that helps professionals uncover the limiting beliefs that are holding them back so they can build a life they love.

I am one in a very small group of Black women Philosophers with a specialization in race, gender, and identity formation and African Diasporic studies. My career journey took a transformative turn when I made the difficult decision to leave academia—on the brink of achieving tenure—and attend to the requests I received for workplace culture interventions and employee support. I felt an undeniable desire to help people who look like me avoid the challenges and barriers I experienced in the workplace, and committed myself to creating healthier, more inclusive work environments. In the corporate space, I found my stride as I learned the language of business and began to understand the unspoken rules that shape workplace dynamics. My work was twofold: partnering with organizations to transform organizations from within and empowering employees to navigate work-related trauma, advocate for their needs, and reclaim their sense of agency.

These experiences fueled my research into the concept of “work identity”—a multidimensional self-concept that integrates who we are within the organization, our profession, and beyond. Understanding this helped me unpack how individuals’ self-image shapes their roles and behaviors at work. Over time, I came to a powerful realization: across all sectors, industries, and levels, we often inherit work habits and patterns that reduce us to mere labor producers. We see our value only in terms of our output, overlooking the fullness of our worth. This revelation drives my mission today, to challenge these outdated paradigms and guide others toward redefining their relationship with work, rediscovering their intrinsic value, and embracing their worth ethic.

It certainly has not been an easy transition but I have become especially adept at the creative art of the pivot. The lessons I have learned along the way have become core principles (affirmations) that I incorporate into my work. Affirmations have been a powerful tool in my professional practice. The most impactful lessons I’ve learned that have now become my favorite affirmations are:

(1) I am more than the value of my labor.
(2) My 60% is good enough.
(3) Success is not what I achieve. Success is my ability to ask for and fulfill my needs.

In turn, my clients have also taught me a number of things that I added to my list of affirmations:

(4) We are all overworked and deserve tools and resources to support a life of abundance.
(5) I listen deeply, ask thoughtful questions, and approach others–and myself–without judgement.
(6) I embrace communication as an ongoing practice of clarity, presence, and understanding.

The “10,000 hours rule” states that achieving mastery in a skill requires approximately 10,000 hours of dedicated practice. So, I am on a mission to help 10,000 professionals redefine their relationship with work, rediscover their intrinsic value and start their worth ethic journey.

Let’s say your best friend was visiting the area and you wanted to show them the best time ever. Where would you take them? Give us a little itinerary – say it was a week long trip, where would you eat, drink, visit, hang out, etc.
Philadelphia is an exciting city, with an ever expanding list of events, attractions, and exquisite dining experiences to satisfy every social appetite. These are the must-do experiences when you come to the city:

Start with coffee at Coffee Creams and Dreams in or Char & Stave in Ardmore
Brunch at Cafe la Maude in Northern Liberties
Browse for new reads at Uncle Bobbies Bookstore in Germantown
Tour the new exhibits at The Franklin Institute
Lunch at Bookers in West Philly
Stop in for an event at Making Worlds Bookstore
Join Harriet’s Bookstore for their Trolley Tour
BalletX at The Mann
Drinks at Lena and the Swan or The Ranstead Room
Dinner at JG Skyhigh
End the night with a night cap at Midnight & the Wicked

Who else deserves some credit and recognition?
I want to dedicate this shoutout to my parents, sisters, and friends who supported my wild attempts to define success on my terms. I also want to thank Toni Jones for the lyrical affirmation, “Worth Ethic,” which allowed me to place a concept around the journey I am on. I also want to acknowledge the powerful contributions of Tricia Hersey, founder of The Nap Ministry, a framework whose message is ‘REST IS RESISTANCE.’ Her work highlights the transformative power of rest as a radical tool for community healing and social justice. She challenges the normalization of grind culture and names sleep deprivation as a professional, racial, and social justice issue, which aligns closely with my commitment to fostering a worth ethic that prioritizes self-love and well-being. I’m also inspired by everyday role models—those who set boundaries, take lunch breaks, carve out time for themselves, and advocate for what they need and deserve. Their quiet acts of resistance remind us that self-care and rest are powerful ways to reclaim our worth and challenge societal pressures.

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